It's not whether we face the adversity, but how we see them. Aimee Mullins，一個非常值得認識的人物，她的美讓人臣服﹗
- 5月 31 週一 201012:19
adversity is like shadow
- 5月 31 週一 201009:20
from my angel's reminder
Hi c,
2 hours no longer in my schedule long time ago ... I feel bad about it although I try to attend to mind for whatever I do.
It's constantly a battle ... You win some, you lose some but hopefully in the end I find way to win it for good :-)
e
2 hours no longer in my schedule long time ago ... I feel bad about it although I try to attend to mind for whatever I do.
It's constantly a battle ... You win some, you lose some but hopefully in the end I find way to win it for good :-)
e
- 5月 28 週五 201007:48
Get ready to roll on the floor!!
Really laugh my head off!!
- 5月 20 週四 201016:54
(譯）愈接近目標的每一次進步都愈顯得珍貴不凡
最後的百分之十是我們尋找的標記，是我們用以溝通關懷、特長與專業的方法。
如果你做的僅是標準，那麼你所得的就是標準的回饋。
困難的是最後的百分之十，當然，甚至是最後的百分之一，但這就是最難的部份因為所有人都忙著做容易的部份。
秘密在於找出多數人覺得不值得努力去做的事。那才是你被找來幹活的原因﹗
如果你做的僅是標準，那麼你所得的就是標準的回饋。
困難的是最後的百分之十，當然，甚至是最後的百分之一，但這就是最難的部份因為所有人都忙著做容易的部份。
秘密在於找出多數人覺得不值得努力去做的事。那才是你被找來幹活的原因﹗
- 5月 19 週三 201010:24
Vitor E Frankl on "Aiming High"
- 5月 17 週一 201010:44
(譯) 教練與藝術家
我們的原始腦為了求生存而演變：對未知充滿恐懼，對變化充滿抗拒。
這個充滿恐懼的蜥蜴腦需要不斷的保證與提振信心甚至在它夠安靜之前、在它能讓我們去創造藝術來改變其他人之前，需要有人推一把，好讓我們去做些困難卻有價值的事。
這個充滿恐懼的蜥蜴腦需要不斷的保證與提振信心甚至在它夠安靜之前、在它能讓我們去創造藝術來改變其他人之前，需要有人推一把，好讓我們去做些困難卻有價值的事。
- 5月 02 週日 201018:12
(10.05) Did I make people laugh or vice versa TODAY? - daily
100527 記0526的一則對話反省
蔡大胖：
我對我自己說了很不好的話，以我自己的大量反省來做後知後覺的覺察，說了這樣的話在我現在意識到之後感到很不好受。
情況是：對方是個很愛追根究柢的女生。對她自己可能也有某種程度的自榮，包括她的英文能力。說實話，我和這種人沒有大太的echo.只是剛好遇到了，就相處一下。她問，你在xxoo上班？我說是啊。又問，那你畢業多久了？我並沒有正面回答，就說我有念書啦。（我覺得念書這回事真的是見仁見智，而且我覺得我實在有愧啊，並沒有走在〝錢的正道上“）她又問到關於工作的事，我就說在xxoo教書你也可以啦。（那天我們也提到xxoo的名聲都被搞壞了啊。而我其實並不覺得自己在xxoo上班，只覺得它在可以給我收入的同時，又能輕易地獲得成就感與社會責任感的任務。不過社會責任感這件事我就沒跟這個人提了，她會懂嗎？我何必說得如此清高？）
可是就是這件你也可以啦的同時又加上算錢的肢體語言，讓我反省了！！！即便我明白不管在什麼地方，都會有良幣和劣幣，而我自許在一個不怎麼有好名聲的地方做好自己，讓來學習的人都可以有啟發與收穫。但是告訴一個對自己英文有著不切實際自榮的人說，你也可以去教。那麼，我豈不是也成了幫兇。
- 4月 26 週一 201011:46
reply to a creative like friend
W,
thanks for update and sharing (maxwell maltz!!), that sounds like an interesting surprise in the performance! pleasant surprises can always bring me new perspective :)
sorry for not saying much now, as there could be too much to say...
and a very recent exhibition i went is a Chinese painting show by this Chinese noble literature award writer: Gao XingJian: his paintings, where every stroke means and the flow of every stroke touches me, make me want to check out his books.
till next time, hugs,
thanks for update and sharing (maxwell maltz!!), that sounds like an interesting surprise in the performance! pleasant surprises can always bring me new perspective :)
sorry for not saying much now, as there could be too much to say...
and a very recent exhibition i went is a Chinese painting show by this Chinese noble literature award writer: Gao XingJian: his paintings, where every stroke means and the flow of every stroke touches me, make me want to check out his books.
till next time, hugs,
- 4月 25 週日 201023:06
(讀）婚前性不幸？！
雖然是21世紀，性行為也是依每個人的價值觀有所不同，不過，BBC還是有一則這樣的報導。而最吸我睛的，是紅字："If she's a virgin, she doesn't have any way of comparing [her husband to other men]. If she's been with other men, then she has experience. Having experience makes women stronger."
Be strong, no matter the sex:male or female. Those mindsets are just sick: they are not aware of their own power but try to weaken others by setting restrictions...
Be strong, no matter the sex:male or female. Those mindsets are just sick: they are not aware of their own power but try to weaken others by setting restrictions...
- 4月 25 週日 201022:26
(cf) things to learn
things to learn from Matt Edgar on Vimeo.